Virtual, holistic, attachment-based sleep support for babies, toddlers, and breastfeeding families.

The gentle alternative to sleep training you’ve been searching for

“Working with Kim will give you your sanity back. There is a really distinct before and after, from the point we started working with her: My baby was waking every 1-2 hours during the night AND refusing to nap – I was exhausted and lost. Now, my son is sleeping great – and I am too, and we can navigate bedtime with grace. I am deeply grateful. ”

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You are here because you’re struggling with your infant or toddler’s sleep

You want to nurture your child in a gentle, responsive way, but you’re tired.

Oh so tired!

Mama, I’ve been there.

And I want you to know that whether you desperately want to keep responding to your child - but don’t think you can keep this up - or whether you’re ready to make a change but need help doing so in a truly gentle way - you’re in the right place.

I’ve got ya

The problem is everything you’re reading about getting baby to sleep, screams: “you’re doing it wrong”

The messages parents receive about infant and toddler sleep are based in fear and disconnection.

And it’s coming at you from all angles – your Doctor, your friends, your neighbour, your mother-in-law.

They make you doubt yourself. People tell you to leave him to cry. Stop responding to her. You’re setting her up for a lifetime of failure. You’re creating bad habits!

But your heart knows what is right for your family:

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Your little one falling asleep safe in your arms.

Those quiet, peaceful moments with your baby nursing in the dark.

The complete trust that your little one has that you will always respond, always be there day or night.

With the right knowledge, mindset, and tools, you can create balance around everyone’s needs.

It takes an open mind, creativity, and lifestyle shifts.

And I promise you this - you can thrive as a family AND not lose your sense of self, whilst still parenting in a way that feels right at night!

Let me show you how

Client Feedback

"Kim was a breath of fresh air after countless hours spent scouring the internet late at night, where it seemed everywhere we turned, we were told that we were hurting our baby by not letting her "learn" how to fall asleep independently/"self-soothe".

How I can help

Hi. I’m Kim Hawley, a Holistic Sleep Coach, Lactation Consultant, and Peaceful Parenting Educator.

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I help tired parents combine developmental knowledge with their intuition to improve family sleep. My specialty is holistic, responsive sleep support for babies, toddlers, and nursing families.

I want you to feel informed, confident, and connected to your little one.

Client Feedback

“Kim is magic. She got our son (2.5-years-old) sleeping through the night, and helped us figure out a better bedtime routine and naps. She also offered sage advice for weaning that’s been really helpful. I'm finally feeling like myself again. In this culture with so much pressure to sleep train that completely goes against my gut instincts, she is a tremendous resource. We cannot recommend her enough. We have so much gratitude–she saved us!”

I do things differently

Most sleep consultants focus on withdrawing your support and getting your baby “used to” the fact that you’re not going to respond – even if they claim to use gentle methods. It usually involves a lot of crying – your baby’s tears AND your own, and it’s not how we roll here.

I address your family’s sleep holistically. My approach draws from attachment theory, neuroscience, evolutionary biology, and the science of biologically normal sleep and development.

Yes, I can help you make changes to how you parent at night, but those changes will always involve emotional availability to your child.

I believe that our culture’s focus on solving baby sleep as the key to solving all your problems is very misleading. There are things we can do to gently improve sleep, but there are more things that you can do to improve your own quality of sleep and well-being, regardless of how baby sleeps.

It’s not just about offering you gentle methods. It’s about shifting the way we view baby and toddlersleep. It’s about recognizing the value and importance of nighttime parenting and responsiveness rather than forcing independence.

Does that sound good to you?

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Helping you and your baby feel calm, connected and rested and restoring a sense of peace to your family?

I work with parents both 1:1 and through my group programme. What’s right for you will depend on the age of your child, the level of support you need and your availability and capacity to work through your challenges with me.

The best way to decide what’s right for you is to book a call

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Client Feedback

“My husband and I felt near death two months into our toddler's sleep regression. He was waking up three to five times each night after a long trip out of town. Kim does not suggest the cry-it-out method, but instead recommends responsive parenting approaches. She advised an approach tailored to our son's character and developmental needs. She helped us bolster his confidence and connection with us, especially during our evening routine (pre-bedtime). Within two days he was sleeping better, and before long he was sleeping through the night. We worked with Kim for two months–the right amount of time for us, given where we were at and what we were struggling with. She was such an invaluable resource to us. I didn’t realize how much I needed some help–I only wish we found her a year earlier. If your child is having trouble sleeping, we highly recommend you get in touch with Kim.”

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✓ You have a baby, toddler, or preschooler
✓ You’re in total crisis mode and need urgent, targeted support and solutions
✓ You have limited time and bandwidth to access recorded resources
✓ You need a high-level of support to navigate a particularly challenging period with your baby or toddler

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Text: Join my intimate group program — This would suit you best if:
✓ Your baby is between 5-24 months.
✓ You like the idea of the hybrid approach of having recorded trainings to learn from at your own pace AND my ongoing support
✓ You’d benefit from seeing that you’re not alone by being part of a community of parents to share experiences and stories
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“I was worried my baby would never ‘learn’ to sleep independently and I was dreading the idea that, at some stage I would have to ‘force it on her’ – eugh! I’m eternally grateful that I found you when I did, so that I can be the mother I want to be, and still get sleep!”

“At Kim's suggestion, we started playing with our daughter after dinner and before bedtime instead of rushing upstairs to start the routine. In addition to helping our daughter sleep through the night, it made us feel more connected to her, giving us more joy and patience. We're happier parents after Kim's help!”

“Working with Kim has been a game changer for my family. I am getting more restful sleep which has been a boost for my mental and physical health. I am able to show up differently (more present,calm and centered) for our son.”